My life is enormously different than it was two years ago. The reason? Personal growth. I have read so many personal growth books in that time, I could start a section at Barnes and Noble. All of those books I thought were a bunch of new-age, feel-good b.s. (complete with me rolling my eyes at such things). But, I was WRONG. They have changed my life fundamentally.
I am a scientist. That is my background, and essentially my faith. I love puzzles, I love questions, and I love figuring out how those two things intertwine.
When it comes to personal, emotional stuff though? I was not so much about that. I like cause and effect, clear and simple. Human emotion is not about cause and effect. It’s about experience and learning. It’s about applying often the b.s. you’ve been through throughout your lifetime, and figuring out how to get past it to live a better life.
Does this sound familiar? I have LIVED this life. The life of hiding, oppressing, and down-right scared life. Everyone’s life is different. I certainly do not know your experiences, but I do know mine. And I think being scared to be someone else, scared to live someone else’s story that you think should be yours, and scared to possibly grow out of that story is real for a lot of people. It was for me.
Fast-forward to now. I am happier than I have EVER been. It was due to discipline, personal growth, and reliance on people close to me. The last one was a big step for me. The other two were easy. Relying on other people, was not. But it was perhaps the single biggest force in my metamorphosis into being a happy, content person. Trust others; however hard it may be.
BE YOU. Even when it is the scariest thing you might ever do.