I am not a big trust person. It takes a long time to earn it from me. I have been working on steadily for the past two years. Every once and while, though, I get this urge and almost necessity to speak with someone who I don’t know very well. I did that tonight, and it was about something deeply personal for both of us. I honestly didn’t know what would come of our conversation, which started about a family event this past week. It was an open, genuine, deeply “real” conversation that was both terrifying and quite striking. And it morphed from a conversation about grieving and that process to one of an oddly fulfilling personal awakening. The cool part was it all stemmed from my friend Kayla’s firm belief that my Nana was immensely proud of me.
When you spend almost your entire adult life being closed off from the world, and to open yourself up little by little is a bit daunting. It makes one vulnerable and exposed.
I have had people tell me, “you are such an inspiration.” And I would say, “thank you so much, and I am glad I was able to do that for you.” In reality, I never understood why I was such an inspiration. FYI, this is not me being modest, I honestly didn’t know.
Kayla, my friend and colleague, clued me in tonight on why I am so inspirational (her words).
I met her last year in Vegas, and she was brand new. Apparently, I said no matter what it was, “Arbonne is amazing.” To me Arbonne is not about the paycheck, which can be incredible. It’s about the relationships, personal growth, and self-discovery along the way. And that is why I am an inspirational being in Arbonne (this is what others have told me). I have persevered much longer than other people may have, because despite some setbacks, I kept going. Because I SAW the potential, I saw where I was going, and I saw what I could become. I hadn’t seen that before really, EVER. I didn’t believe in myself, and I relied on others belief in me until I gathered my own. My personal definition of perseverance is doing something long after the excitement and what you said you were going to do has worn off. I am a person of my word, and yes, this is a lot longer than I thought it would take. It IS happening. My Nana saw it in me the last time we spoke, and it has provided a fuel for me to get it done. She was proud of me. She saw greatness in me, and she believed it to be possible.
I didn’t know what this blog entry was going to be about. I almost just free-wrote it, and this is what came out of my head. It’s important part of this journey that I am on to trust myself.